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Marks of a Disciple: Loving

Disciples of Jesus Love.

“My command is this:  Love each other as I have loved you” (John 15:12).

Jesus gave us all sorts of other instructions and commands, but he boils obedience to God down to one thing: love. In the summary of the law, Jesus said to love God and love people.  Here he says to his followers, “Love each other.”  But he didn’t stop there.  He said, “Love each other as I have loved you.”

The thought process goes like this:

• As God loved Jesus, so Jesus loves us.
• As Jesus loved us, so we are to love one another.
• The love of God is a self-giving love – a willingness to give of oneself for the benefit of others.

But what does that love look like? Christ-like love means being Christ-like in our willingness to give everything away–even our lives–for the sake of God’s purposes in others. Yikes. Thankfully, Jesus doesn’t expect perfection from us, but he does expect imitation.  If we are just throwing up our hands and saying, “I can never do that,” we are missing the point. Our goal is to grow in Christ-likeness until we are willing to lay down our lives for our friends.  (And not just in the imaginary moment of being a martyr – but in the everyday routines of life where all of us naturally focus on ourselves and our needs.)

You might have heard it said that hurt people hurt. That means if a person is hurtful to others in their words, actions or presence, it is probably because they have been hurt themselves.  This perspective gives us a way of become curious about others rather than furious with them.  But it is also true that loved people love. 

The church is often accused of being hypocritical (and let’s face it: we have a less-than-stellar record because we are less-than-stellar people). Sometimes in the face of these accusations, we overlook the great change God has worked in the world through the transformed lives of people. Much of the world has no concept of the very real value added every day to life on this planet by authentic followers of Jesus Christ.  The church isn’t perfect, we know that full well. But God is up to something.  God is using his church to reach the world. 

Practically speaking, the purpose of Christians loving one another is not to create a holy huddle. The purpose is twofold:

1. We move toward the goal of the entire Christian life, which is becoming like Jesus.
2. The world will witness a new kind of community that surprises them, that wows them, that baffles them, and that attracts them.

Bill Hull in The Disciple-Making Pastor said, “The distilled essence of Christ’s ministry to mankind was motivated, sustained, and underlined by love”. Boil this Christian thing down, and it is all about self-giving love. Jesus gave himself for us.  When we let that sink in, really sink in, we are transformed by understanding that God SO loves us. And then we give ourselves for others.  We are empowered by the Spirit to obey Jesus’ command to love one another within the church, and to love our neighbors outside of the church.

Disciples of Jesus Love.

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Weekly Grapple Connection


Grapple Question: Do I have to Be a Jesus Freak?
Students Learn: Love God with ALL I am
Dig Into the Bible: Revelation 3:14-22


Next Sunday treat: Aurora Riley


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CONNECTING IT THROUGH THE WEEK
Teenagers just want to fit in, so the thought of being set apart as a “Jesus Freak”
is scary! But it’s important to stand up for things we believe in. Tell your child
about a time you took a stand for something you felt strongly about—maybe
a co-worker asked why you pray before lunch or you debated your views on
abortion with a relative. Knowing that you made it through that tough time will
help your child stay firmly rooted next time his or her faith is tested.

January, 22nd 2012 - "Abiding" (sermon audio)

The first step in becoming a disciple who makes disciples is being a disciple yourself.

Spiritual fruit comes from the overflow of our fellowship with God. The more deeply we are connected with Christ and

walking with Him, the more fruit there will be. The best investment you can make in combating the evil or advancing

the Gospel or serving the poor is to focus first on your relationship with Jesus. To commit by yourself as his apprentice -

to learn everything he said and to seek to apply it all the time. Abiding in Christ, is the most basic and necessary

commitment needed from a believer to grow into a more devoted follower of Christ.

"You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can

bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you

are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing."

(John 15:3-5)

When we become believers, the Holy Spirit - or the Spirit of Christ - comes to live within us, to be ever present in our

life, to intercede for us, to remind us of everything Jesus said. He stays in us ... present all the time ... active all the

time. What would it look like for us to stay in Jesus all the time, to be present with him all the time, to be active with

him all the time? That's what Jesus is talking about.

We all need to develop our own Rule of Life to grow as disciples who make disciples. Basically, this is a game plan for

spiritual growth. A Rule of Life involves a rhythm for living that helps us abide in Christ and grow more connected to Him.

To begin crafting a strategy for spiritual transformation, Pastor John Ortberg suggests these initial questions:

1. How and when will I pray?

2. How can I approach my work in a way that will help Christ to be formed in me?

3. How will I handle money in a way that draws me closer to God?

4. How will I invest in Christian community (such as corporate worship, fellowship and confession)?

5. How can I fill my daily tasks with a sense of the presence of God?

The first step in becoming a disciple who makes disciples is being a disciple yourself, and the crucial and most basic

element of being a disciple of Jesus is choosing to abide in Him daily.

February 5, 2012 - Praying (sermon audio)

 

Disciples of Jesus Pray as a Way of Life.

Disciples of Jesus pray. The words of Jesus Christ are the foundation of all we, as disciples, do. These words shape our prayers. Scripture instructs us to pray for health, families, friends, enemies, shalom for the world, and an end to poverty and oppression. Still, we find ourselves asking, what is prayer, how do we pray and why do we pray?

 

What is prayer?
Disciples of Jesus pray as a way of life. As Pastor Jon says, “We live in a world where a resurrection has happened.” Prayer is primary in that world. Prayer is not a special language for holy times. Prayer is the “Amen!” to God’s actions and the language through which a disciple grows. Eugene Peterson calls it “practicing resurrection.” The disciple is immersed in prayer, soaking in it, and struggling through it.
Prayer is the language we use to respond to God. It is an active passivity. Disciples begin praying by listening. God speaks. We respond.

How do we pray?
Prayer begins in silence. Silence is where the disciple recognizes his/her reliance on God. Silence is not resignation, but rather active waiting for God. Silence can feel awkward and uncomfortable, but when growing, abiding, reflecting disciples practice silence, our true selves are revealed. We see our own human hearts and recognize the pride, the violence, and the apathy. We also build within us a true desire for God. Silence in prayer grows us as disciples and teaches us to respond to God. The disciple listens first understanding that God is at work.
Prayer is not something we just teach ourselves to do. It is a discipline that takes time to develop. The disciple knows he/she can only pray when abiding in Christ and when immersed in the Word. At times it may still seem impossible to pray, but the disciple is certain Jesus Christ will pray for him (Hb. 7:25) and the Holy Spirit will intercede (Rm. 8:26).

Why do we pray?
Just as our lungs were created to breathe, we were created to be in relationship with the living God. Disciples know they are children of God, so they pray. Disciples know they are heirs to God’s promises of redemption, joy, and a full life, so they pray.
Disciples are convinced prayer is how we are in relationship with the living God, how we grow and abide in Jesus Christ, how we reflect on the Word through the Holy Spirit, and how we act for Jesus Christ and the mission of the church. When we pray for the will of God to be done, we participate in the mission of God. God hears his disciples and acts for them.

Invitation to pray
Our purpose of church multiplication is coming to fruition in the Caledonia Church Plant. We cannot accomplish this on our own. The number one thing we can all do is pray. “Ask the Lord of the Harvest to send out workers into the harvest field (Luke 10:2).

Disciples of Jesus pray as a way of life, seeking to join God in His mission in this world.